What A punk I was last night.
I hate guys who think that infidelity is absolutely acceptable. I despise pple like that, because they simply have no respect for others as human beings. I will not tolerate or condone any idea of infidelity, whether is it towards a couple who only started dating for a month to a couple married for years. It is rude and disrespectful to the partner being left in the dark. 
Allow me to explain the meaning of Infidelity. I quote from Dictionary.com

in⋅fi⋅del⋅i⋅ty

I don’t care if its because both party can no longer work things out, and are on the verge of separation, it is not an excuse or reason to cheat at all. Because if you want to be with somebody i the first place, its your responsibility to stay unwavered by temptations. Only you have the ability to maintain your self control, and as a person, if you dun or can’t even have self control, it goes to show what kind of a person you are. Thus, this person would most probably have some serious self esteem issues.
That said, being unfaithful to your once “loved” let alone still “love” (as some would still say it in obvious denial) is not something to BOAST and BRAG about. If one goes through the trouble of extending the scenario to frens and pple he knows, then that person must have some underlying insecurities. As to what is it..no one will ever know. Because this sort of pple tend to like to hide themselves behind a mask to make themselves look “COOL” or worthy enough among the pple they know. But in truth, no one is or can be deemed unworthy by others, except for themselves .  So maybe if social worthiness, appear to be so important and crucial in influencing a person’s choice, then perhaps he should start looking within and evaluate the importance of such realistic ideas, instead of being overly concern and putting weight into what others might see and say about you. Thats a baggage, only we can unload ourselves, so dun go blaming your wife, your gf, for your jerkoff attitude and screwed up principles to go cheat on them. No one else should take the blame and scrutiny but the evil doer, not the victim. You can try to turn the tables around, sweep all that guilt under ur bed, and flush away all that remorse, but I can assure you, it’ll all come creeping back to you one day. And when that day come, I hope I’ll be there to see it.
An incident related to my above ranting. Below name is reduced to just his initials. There is no intentions of making him anonymous whatsoever, since he has no intentions of keeping it a secret and making it as discreet as possible, I might as well help him tell the whole world what kind of person he is, so that his many other “flings” or “3rd party” as he called it, will know what a player he is, then he can carry on with his business of “cheating on his wife, countless times” and get a “divorce” after like one or two years of marriage to the wife that he so often make rude remarks off behind her back of cos. Poor girl. Having experienced such injustice in my previous relationship (GOOD RIDDANCE), I vowed never to ever allow such disrespectful betrayal to happen without a SMACK on the face. So…being the LOUD MOUTH and BUSY BODY me, I couldn’t help but jump right in to put my DOLLARS Worth of lecture! I wan to justify her pain and betrayal, I want to WIPE THAT BLARDY SMILE OFF HIS GLOATING FACE!!!
Last night – On Msn (I intentionally set up the conversation to baite him in, knowing that he’ll jump right into the opportunity of broadcasting his “divorce” due to a “third party” involvement and him “cheating countlessly”. I was already well aware of the whole “case” before I spoke to him. That’s why I knew I could baite him in, like I said he seems to love bragging about him cheating after being married. What a pathetic guy.
Here’s a rough idea of what happened. I accidentally deleted the stupid conversation.
Me: You gng to run 2.4 k?
K: yes
Me: sure not? Serious? Kena force by army to run rite?
K: no. I run willingly. why? hard to believe?
K: Hey I’m getting a divorce you know.
Me: Really? Sure not? Dun bluff
K: Yeah I am. you dun believe? I told Kevin all about it, you  dun believe you ask him.
K: actually theres a 3rd party involve
Me: serious? Who? Omg…Your wife cheated on you? Oh no.. (i knew he was going to admit that it was him…but I chose to pretend)
K: No. No. No.
K: its not her, its me.
K: me!
K: Me!  (At least 3 times, he insisted on claiming “CREDITS” for the cheating. UNBELIEVEABLE!!!)
K: I was the one who cheated. Actually I am quite confuse. Been wanting to get advise from pple. (like it’ll help!…he’s always said that its ok for men to have affairs and mistress/sex partners outside of marriage, as long as they still go home to their wife. And it doesn’t mean having a mistress outside means they dun love their wife. See what kind of low life I am dealing with?!)
Me: Hahahaha….You? Cheat? Sure or not? Dun lie lar. How is that possible? (And I just know what was about to come after this, I lead him to it)
K: Why? is it so hard to believe that I cheat?
K: I’ve cheated countless times.
K: You think I cannot?
 K: issit because you think I am fat thats why I cannot cheat?
Me: Dun bluff lar. hahahahahaha
K: Nbei, you think I am fat and cannot cheat issit?
K: KNN you calling me fat?
(poor guy! He must be suffering some serious insecurity issues. But then again, I didn’t even say a word, so why the hell is he hurling vulgarities at me?But no I am not calling him fat, more like a liar and a boastful one.)
Me: I didn’t say that. Don’t put words in my mouth.
K: then why you dun believe me? (seems quite determine to make pple believe that he is capable to cheat and has the ability to get a 3rd party involve ah)
Me: How is that possible!? hahaha…
Me: Who goes around telling pple he’s getting a divorce and its because he cheated and he’s did it countless times. You seem so proud about it.
K: No lar.. I have my reasons.
Me: it doesn’t give you an excuse to cheat. And to cheat countless times.
Me: Hahaha..anyway…very funny. I dun believe lar. (I still wan to maintain that he is NOT CAPABLE!!!!)

Then he started trying to explain how his wife doesn’t seem to like to hang out with us. And how, their marriage wouldn’t work, how the both of them can’t stay together. RIGHT! Like thats a reason to cheat and tell the whole world.

Me: So are you saying that because you are fat, you want to prove to pple that you can also cheat?
K: This conversation is not going anywhere, if you continue to rant. (Why? I dun think I am done yet? But he’s probably giving up, since he is not getting the satisfaction out of telling me, like he’d been telling others.)
Then he started calling me Young, Childish, Unmarried dunno whats going on, wouldn’t understand, until I am married. Whats so hard to understand? You are insecure, you have poor self control, you have childish and unrealistic perceptions about marriage life and you have no respect for woman at all. Whats not to understand? Who’s the childish one? Here i am trying to defend all woman’s reason to married and defend their worth, and all this guy can worry about is, being called fat and not believed for cheating. So pathetic.
Then he again complaint about me ranting and me passing my judgement without hearing him out…Please….If he really thought about it, and really still did it, he would have expected this sort of stuff to followup rite?
To think he start it off by telling pple he is divorcing because he cheats countless times, what was he expecting? A WARM HUG and A PAT ON THE BACK for the “GREAT JOB” he’s done??? GEESH! What was he thinking? Should so wake up his freaking idea.
I dun even know why I even bother wasting my time talking to him…But I was really getting a kick out of his irritation for the number of times I refuse to believe he could cheat! Hahaha… he was really frustrated, with trying to convince me, towards the end, he attempted to block me from his msn to  end the TORTUROUS conversation, but I wouldn’t give up, I continued ranting.
It was absolutely hilarious!
Honestly,  I dun even care what he does, nor do I have the right to judge his actions on infidelity at all. But since he decided to tell the whole world, ”unluckily for him he told me” and embarrasse himself just to put his POINT across, I couldn’t resist shooting his EGO BOOSTING ATTEMPT down!!! And Blasting whatever PUNY EGO he has left in that HUGE HEAD/ Belly he’s got!
I am not a mean person. Hell, I am even more sensitive than the average….but I will not stand for such behaviour in my circle, and I will go thru any extend, even losing my image or ruining my reputation to be call a BIATCH, if I have to, just to put such Pathetic Losers back in their hiding hole- where they belong!
Thats the sort of person i will not care to lose. One less in this world, the better for all woman kind. And so that they dun go clouding and corrupting the minority of decent guys with their screwed up concepts.
And to think I once call K my “brother”, because he’s got (sadly) the same surname as me, and the “SNAG” image he puts up and across was believeable enough. Its now clear to me that its all a facade. I was so fooled. One thing tho…the SENSITIVE NEW AGE GUY thingy….was a part true…cos he sure gets OVER SENSITIVE, and misunderstands pple calling him fat ALL THE TIME! Frankly, I think its high time he accepts it and manage it instead of fussing about pple calling him fat. Its not something anyone can overlook.
Thats all I wish to rant! Ahhh…feels so good! I’m so mean. Well…dun mess with me or I’ll poison you with my words…otherwise I’m a REALLY nice person to have around.